PRIVATE EYES

Amazing how attitude changes with just one or two additions. Like the photographs below taken during play today - the "ok, what are you gonna do now then" look very quickly turns into the "oh shit" one! An inflatable gag and a muzzle have quite the ability to get one back in check lol!



Of course there are many attitude changers within the bubble of an O/p relationship, some of them involve pain and short sharp shocks, but I do think the best ones involve the mental rather than the physical. A few whispered words in my shell-like, or when the shadow of doom creeps across his face. It's those kind of things that are far more likely to stop me in my tracks.

Photos ©2012 by Alternative Mindsets

INTRUSIONS

Whilst the two drawings below do look pretty hot, it is unfortunate that they are not fetish artworks, or even indeed forms of medieval tortures, but serious medical drawings from the past! Seems it was perfectly okay to chain and tie a woman down for gynaecological examinations in the late 19th century, or that the best way for procedures involved metal restraints! And whilst I would be absolutely interested in either of these techniques for a medical play session, can't say they would encourage me to attend the doc when smear test time comes around lol!

STONE THE CROWS

Berlin based The Living Doll Company gives a fantastic performance as stone statues. The bodypainting is a wonder to behold!

WHORE FROM A BOX

"And The Birthday Gift Is Always Unaware Of Things To Come" - another glorious offering by Jeffery Scott (1019). I wonder if the birthday boy bought it for himself, as other than the matching armless classical statue in the distance, there doesn't seem to be many party guests lol!

image ©2012 jeffery scott(1019)- used here with kind permission.

TITS OOT FOR THE LADS!

I realised last week that I am a hypocrite. There was I making comment on a 53 year old woman showing off her tits on Celebrity Big Brother, tsk tsk, woman of her age, disgraceful, yak, yak, yak. But hello.....mosey through this blog and my tits appear to the masses on dozens of occasions! Perhaps it could be argued that this is different, that there are not millions of people looking at my lady lumps on peak time television, that I am not well known and don't have to face the general public and their probable cat calling on a daily basis, that I am not giving my husband any nasty surprises.

But it's not different really. I am not that much younger than the woman in question, and if her behaviour is off-putting solely because of her age, then mine surely must be too and I should eradicate this blog!

But what age is that cut-off point? The point where breasticles and the likes should be kept under wraps unless they are surgically enhanced and therefore not in keeping with actual years on the planet? Are we pre-programmed to think women of a certain age should wrap up and keep warm, that flesh over the age of (insert relevant number here) is something to keep hidden, and if so by whom or what? Is it something to do with motherhood, the horrid thought of our own nurturers behaving in this way? Or deep seated feelings that menopausal females should not show they are sexual beings?

There would not have been such a hoo-haa if the televised exposure had been one of the younger female housemates, nobody would have batted an eyelid, including me.

I am feeling incredibly uncomfortable with myself, for falling into a trap, for having such nasty double standards, for thoughts that betrayed a woman not unlike me in many ways. And just maybe what I show on this blog is a hundred times worse than what was done on TV, after all I am showing myself in a sexually objectified state, whereas the Big Brother contestant was, I believe, trying to empower herself.

I hang my head in shame.

DON'T BE A DUMMY

Omg! He has a mannequin fetish and needs to be cured lol! "Dr Sex" from the Radio Robots series by Dumpster Diver Films.

IN THE DOGHOUSE

"Domesticated" by conceptual artist JustStine

There is something about this artwork that draws me in. Not generally that keen on coloured fetish art, but I find this entrancing. Perhaps the soulful look in the petgirl's eyes - is that sadness or defeat or simply a relaxed calm? Clearly well taken care of by the presence of toys, food and someplace comfortable to sleep, is she looking out to the audience for pity or help, or is she gazing at her owner, waiting patiently to be told what a good girl she is.

picture ©2008 by JustStine

CLICK

A tremendously sexy video entitled "Toys" by German photographer and filmaker Calvato, featuring Lady Cassandra and her three remote controlled latex toys. Super shiny :)