CARE & RESPECT

Just because a human being is temporarily transformed into an object or non-human entity does not mean that respect flies out the window. Whilst it is perfectly acceptable to use the 'thing' as one wishes, just like any other object of value or trusting animal one does not break or damage it, but instead cherishes it and cares for it as necessary. No matter how hard the 'thing' has been worked, no matter how much consensual abuse it has taken during the scene, it is the owner's responsibility to show respect afterwards in the form of care and attention.

It's really no different to the aftercare offered after a BDSM scene. And whilst not everyone requires or enjoys being hugged/giving hugs etc, there is always a need to check on certain things like sore bits or mental state.

Basically, it's about keeping your possession in good condition and working order, both physically and mentally.