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Friday, 29 January 2010

SEX OBJECT

What's getting hot and wet and very horny got to do with being something inanimate? Well, to begin with, if the thought of being dehumanised and/or objectified did not turn me on then I would not do it! Yes, ok, well it could be argued that I would do it if my Owner told me I HAD to, but our relationship doesn't really work that way. If I am not sexually excited by something then it is of no interest to my Owner - that's not his bag at all!

Then there is the control - it turns me on to be controlled and it turns me on to be able to control myself, or to be more specific, control my human qualities and actions, and that includes my sexual responses. It is pretty much impossible to stop the physical signs of arousal, you cannot will your cunt to be dry, your body will always betray you! However, suppressing vocal and free movement signs of enjoyment and orgasm is a challenge that I enjoy greatly.

Something my Owner said not so long ago was that when I am in a non-human role he is likely to be far more sadistic than if we were simply in a plain BDSM session. The stripping away of my human-ness allows him, in his mind, to be this way. The more sadistic he is, the more he treats me like an object, the more turned on I am. The more turned on I am, the more sadistic he becomes, the more sadistic he becomes the more he is turned on - a win/win situation!!

Should an inanimate object experience sexual arousal? Why the hell not! As I have pointed out in previous posts, no matter how hard one tries to actually be a doll or a chair or a mannequin or whatever, it won't ever be truly real and one should not think one has failed in a role because they have been unable to control what happens naturally. Additionally, the minority of those who experience no sexual thrill in these types of roles and do them for other reasons should not look at the rest of us with any disdain or disgust - each to their own and let's leave it at that!

2 comments:

how to ollie said...

Excellent post and writing style. Bookmarked.

shape shifter said...

Glad you enjoyed it x